read in browser Hi friend, Last week, we talked about the body’s biological response to conflict — how our nervous systems hear disagreement and react as though we’re facing down a saber-toothed tiger. (ICYMI: read it here.) Let’s go deeper. Because the Online Discourse™ about “a regulated nervous system” has been frying mine. The TikTok pop psychology girlies (gender neutral, obvi) would have us out here thinking that regulated means calm. Unflappable. Aloof. Stoic. Utterly unfazed. “She...